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Author's Biography: Barbara Wilder
Barbara Wilder is a personal coach, speaker, and author devoted to helping others heal through faith and self-discovery. In her latest book, Love Letters for the Brokenhearted, she draws from her own journey through toxic relationships, emotional pain, and spiritual reconnection to offer hope and healing to others.
After years of feeling lost, Barbara experienced a life-changing transformation when she rediscovered her Christian faith. That awakening not only healed her, but inspired her to guide others toward the same freedom. Through her coaching and speaking, she creates safe spaces for individuals to explore their stories, break free from past wounds, and experience God’s redemptive love.
Barbara’s writing is heartfelt and honest, blending personal testimony, biblical truth, and soulful poetry. Her mission is clear: to help the brokenhearted know they are not alone—and that there is always a way back to wholeness.
Book Summary: "Love Letters for the Brokenhearted"
In "Love Letters for the Brokenhearted," readers embark on a transformative journey from heartbreak to healing, guided by heartfelt reflections and inspired by Christian faith. This self-help guide is designed for those navigating the stormy seas of emotional pain, offering solace and hope through its engaging narrative and beautifully crafted poetry.
The book opens with a compassionate understanding of heartbreak's profound impact, acknowledging the feelings of loss, despair, and confusion that often accompany troubled relationships. Through captivating storytelling, the author shares personal experiences and insights that resonate deeply with readers who may feel isolated in their struggles.
Each chapter serves as a love letter—a powerful reminder that they are not alone in their suffering. These letters encapsulate themes of grace, forgiveness, and restoration as they encourage readers to lean into their faith during times of distress. The motivational narration is enriched with biblical wisdom and real-life examples that demonstrate how God’s love can mend broken hearts.
Interwoven throughout are poignant poems that express raw emotions—grief mingled with hope—that allow readers to connect on an intimate level. The lyrical verses serve as both comfort and inspiration, capturing the essence of healing through creativity while inviting reflection on one's own journey.
As readers progress through "Love Letters for the Brokenhearted," they will find practical guidance and spiritual exercises aimed at rekindling their faith amidst heartache. The book emphasizes rebuilding one's identity in Christ, embracing vulnerability as strength, and finding purpose even in pain.
Ultimately, this guide offers more than just consolation; it invites transformation by encouraging individuals to open themselves up to divine love once again. With empathy at its core, "Love Letters for the Brokenhearted" stands as a beacon of light for anyone seeking restoration from grief—reminding them that every heartbreak can be a stepping stone towards deeper faith and renewed hope in God's plan.
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Introduction
hances are you were drawn to this book because you experienced heartbreak in the near past. Maybe you received this book as a gift from someone who cares about you and wants to cheer you up during a trying time, or all you are is a hopeless romantic. Whatever the reason, we’re about to embark on a journey together.
I want to come and get you, wherever you are on your heart travels, pick you up from your desolate bus stop, and lead you to a lovely path of hope and faith.
The truth is, heartbreak’s a deeply personal experience, often essential for our growth and self-discovery. It’s not about running away from the feelings; it’s about having the courage to walk through them and learn from them.
We’ll illuminate the patterns that keep you stuck in toxic relationships, inviting you to reflect on the underlying reasons for these cycles.
I’ll give you important insights and gentle guidance, empowering you to break free from these patterns. It’s about fostering understanding, self-compassion, and ultimately, growth. And you’ll learn how to transform your heartache into a stepping stone for a healthier future.
It's not about avoiding heartbreak’s pain, but instead embracing it and taking time to reassess. Just like rain nourishes the earth, our pain fosters growth and resilience. I can’t shield you from the storm, but I can share how I navigated through my own, and I’m sure you’ll relate.
Healing isn’t a one-time event that wraps up neatly after a single moment’s reflection. It’s an ongoing process, often filled with ups and downs. It’s frustrating, isn’t it, when people ask, “Are you over it?” or suggest that you’re “Still hanging onto the past.” How could you not? Our past is intrinsically woven into our identity, shaping who we are and how we view the world.
Instead of trying to forget our heartaches, it’s more beneficial to accept our past and learn how to carry our cross, not as a burden, but as a part of our story. The goal is to grow strong enough to appreciate the lessons offered. Embracing our history lets us move forward with greater wisdom and gratitude, transforming our pain into a foundation for building something new and better.
The reality is, future heartbreak is something we’ll probably all face, but what I want you to grasp is it's not about preventing the inevitable. It's about developing the skills to handle challenges more effectively.
The goal is to grow resilient and confident, knowing that whatever life throws at us, we can manage it. Not because we’ve erased the past, but because we’ve grown from it. And to do that the best way possible, we must confront our past, reflect on it, and understand where things went off track so we can change our patterns moving forward.
You might find yourself welcoming chaos or dysfunction into your life because it feels familiar. But familiarity often is a liar. Fami-Liar.
When we grow up surrounded by emotional turmoil, we often unconsciously think love and drama go hand in hand. We might believe that if things aren’t intense, it’s not “real love.”
Once you start realizing your own patterns, that’s your opportunity to break free from choosing chaotic and unsafe relationships. It takes time, but the power is already within you. We just need to find the keys to open up the shackles that were dragging you down all these years.
You’re worthy of a relationship that brings peace into your life, not stress. It’s okay to ask for healthy boundaries, to expect respect, and not settle for anything less. Your past doesn’t have to define your future - you can absolutely create the kind of love that nurtures your heart.
The choices we make about who we let into our lives and how much influence we give them are often shaped by deep-seated beliefs we formed during early childhood, a time when our brains weren't fully developed. These beliefs, evolved during those formative years, have a lasting impact on how we view ourselves and others.
See, I used to believe I was walking alone through this world; I felt incomplete and that’s why I was looking for my better half all these years. Maybe you've felt that way too, like something is missing and you're desperately trying to find it. Belonging to someone felt like my life raft whilst I was clinging to people who turned out to be my cement shoes. Isn’t it crazy how we sometimes hold onto things that weigh us down, thinking they’re what will save us?
To put it mildly, I've never been one to give up easily on a relationship. I get it. It’s not easy to let go when you’ve invested so much of yourself. But here’s the thing: it’s necessary when it’s not serving you or the other person anymore.
Although the only relationship I was never chasing after was a relationship with my Savior, who was chasing after me all this time. Think about that for a moment. Sometimes, the very thing we need is the thing we least look for. No matter how many signs I got, I wasn’t able to break the cycle of searching for belonging and purpose in all the wrong places. It’s like we sometimes get so focused on searching that we miss the answers right in front of us.
Even in my marriage, I was a lonely traveler. Letting go of a relationship always felt like the other person’s death. Grief was my most served companion.
But, I now understand that holding onto toxic relationships not only poisoned my soul but also prohibited my counterparts from growing.
You see, staying in something unhealthy doesn’t just hurt us - it stops both parties from evolving into who they were meant to be.
It was a tiring merry-go-round that eventually threw us all off our horses. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve gone around in circles, a tiring circle so many of us are a part of, hoping things would change, only to realize the cycle had to end for any real change to happen.
If you're reading this, I hope this book serves you as a little light to guide you through tough times. No matter where you are or how many times you’ve stumbled, remember life moves in seasons. Even if things feel like they're at their hardest right now, know that just like winter gives way to spring, your current struggles will eventually turn into something beautiful.
It’s okay to take things one step at a time. You don't have to have it all figured out right now. Trust that what you're going through is leading you to growth, and with patience and faith, you’ll reach the other side - a place of peace and understanding.
The good news is, as soon as we accept defeat, embrace the pain, and be grateful for the lessons, we have an opportunity to rise from it. Life's challenges serve as a tool to develop our character, rather than a means of punishment.
A diamond, once upon a time, was just a piece of carbon. Only extreme pressure and heat transformed it into a precious stone that absorbs light, breaks it apart like a prism, dispersing it into a rainbow of colors.
There’s no testimony without a test. No sweeter return to your home than after a cruel, somber, and lonely journey. Just as rivers' movements create canyons following heavy rains, so too can tears carve out spaces in our souls. And through those cracks, we can allow light to shine through us.
Whether you consider yourself a believer or not, this message is for you. I’m going to share my story, rooted in personal experiences that have profoundly shaped my life, including my encounter with Christ. My path hasn’t always been straightforward; there’ve been moments of doubt, struggle, and even times when my faith felt distant.
If you haven't yet experienced any form of faith, or if you once held onto it dearly but have since lost that connection, please don’t feel intimidated. This book isn’t just for those who are firmly grounded in their beliefs; it’s for anyone seeking understanding, healing, or a glimmer of hope.
Through the pages, you’ll find comfort and encouragement, echoing the universal human experience of longing for something greater. My hope is that, regardless of where you stand, this book will inspire you to reflect, heal, and perhaps rekindle a sense of wonder and hope within your heart. You’re not alone, and there’s always a path toward renewal.
Even in times when I had difficulty believing at all, I’ve realized that during all these challenges, God has been the steady rock beneath my feet.
When things aren't going our way, it's easy to lose sight of our faith.
This book serves as a reminder that there’s a light waiting at the end, even in the darkest tunnels. Although God won't stop disappointments, He’ll hold our hands and guide us through the valley of the shadow of death.
The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” Psalm 34:18
Fast Love
I fall in love with people too fast. I see their beauty, I feel their pain, I long for their heartbeat,
And I want to restrain.
But as soon as I see the broken in you,
I want to fix it and make something new,
Fill in the cracks with golden patterns,
Till I give myself away and drag the moon near Saturn.
And with my tears, I am filling your cup Until I run out of water before I retract.
I see your uniqueness,
I believe in your goals,
You’ve never tried to accomplish. But for me,
You’re always whole.
The Shepherd
Once upon a time, I wore my darkest dress To a battle that felt like a game of chess.
I lost my shoes,
They were full of blood,
It must have been the rocks that cut Into the cracks on my sole.
Sadness was placed on my face, like some unpleasant mole, The sun was burning my shoulders as I walked,
The dryness was numbing my voice when I talked.
I was dirty and in rough shape,
But you didn’t care,
You welcomed me with a smile, and you said we were square.
You treated me like a lost diamond,
And only heaven knows,
I wasn’t more than just a stone on an island. Through your grace, miracles are done for me, I want to open my eyes only for you to see.
For the one who healed the blind,
I can’t comprehend your nature,
Being so overwhelmingly kind To a torn up wager. You walked back for me,
You left the herd out there waiting, You crossed all these mountains And it wasn’t you berating-me.
You never asked why I got lost.
It’s a concept which still brings tears to my eyes, You brought the truth and healed these lies. When I wake up in the morning,
The first thing which comes to my mind
Is to praise your glory, as I am defined.
Who am I?
I am not worthy of your breath,
But you still came for me and saved me from a certain death. How could I ever repay you?
I can’t, but I will follow,
To any land, knowing you’ll never leave me hollow. Underneath your wings, I finally grow,
Your gentle hand leads me to an understanding
I otherwise would never know.
Q&A with Barbara Wilder, Author of "Love Letters for the Brokenhearted"
Q: What inspired you to write "Love Letters for the Brokenhearted"?
A: The inspiration behind "Love Letters for the Brokenhearted" came from my own journey through heartbreak and trauma. I realized that many people struggle with similar feelings of despair and loneliness. I wanted to create a guide that combines my personal experiences with biblical wisdom, offering hope and encouragement to those navigating their own painful paths. The poetry in the book serves as a heartfelt expression of these emotions, making it relatable and soothing.
Q: Was it easy for you to write this book?
A: Not at all! While some poems flowed easily from my darkest moments, I didn’t want this book to come off as self-pitying. My goal was to create something uplifting and helpful for readers, but I wasn’t sure how to turn those darker poems into a message of hope. I realized I needed to be transformed by God first. Whenever I felt lost, God encouraged me to keep writing. Not only did He guide me in creating a healing book for others, but He also healed me in the process. Though I didn’t fully understand the journey at first, God fulfilled His promise and helped me create something I couldn’t have done alone.
Q: Can you tell us more about your personal struggles that shaped this book?
A: Certainly. I've faced cycles of toxic relationships that left me feeling lost and broken. For years, I wrestled with feelings of unworthiness and confusion about my identity in Christ. It wasn't until I rediscovered my faith—through prayer, community support, and deep reflection—that everything started to change for me. This healing process is what I share in the book; it's a testament to how God can transform our pain into purpose.
Q: How do you integrate poetry into your narrative? Why was this important for you?
A: Poetry allows me to convey emotions in a way that's often deeper than prose can achieve alone. Each poem is thoughtfully placed alongside the narration to capture specific moments or feelings related to heartbreak—offering readers not just understanding but also an emotional release. It's important because it creates an intimate experience; readers can feel what I felt during those dark times while also finding solace in shared vulnerability.
Q: What do you hope readers take away from your book?
A: My greatest hope is that readers will find comfort and encouragement through their struggles. Heartbreak can be isolating, but it's essential to remember they are not alone on this journey. "Love Letters for the Brokenhearted" offers practical insights alongside spiritual guidance rooted in faith—encouraging individuals to embrace their pain while finding strength in their relationship with Jesus.
Q: How does your faith play a role in overcoming heartbreak?
A: Faith has been my anchor throughout every storm I've faced—the guiding light leading me back when I'd wandered off course. Through prayer, scripture study, and supportive community connections, I've learned that God’s love transcends all heartache; it provides healing even when we can't see it at first glance. Sharing this aspect of my journey reinforces how crucial faith is during challenging times—it’s where true restoration begins.
Q: What advice would you give someone currently experiencing heartbreak?
A: First off, allow yourself to feel all emotions without shame—they're valid! Don't hesitate to reach out for support from friends or loved ones who uplift you spiritually or emotionally; connection is vital during tough periods like these! Lastly, lean into your faith; spend time praying or reading scripture daily—even if just one verse—to remind yourself of God's unwavering love amidst turmoil.
Q: What's next for Barbara Wilder after releasing "Love Letters for the Brokenhearted"?
A: I'm excited about continuing my speaking engagements where I'll share more about resilience through trials—and possibly exploring new writing projects centered around themes like forgiveness or self-acceptance within our journeys toward healing! Most importantly though—I’m committed wholeheartedly toward serving others as they find their own paths back home through Jesus’ love!
